Comments on: Side Effect of Porn – Loneliness http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/ Peers helping Peers resist Porn Sat, 10 Oct 2009 00:16:48 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Mark http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-342 Mark Sat, 10 Oct 2009 00:16:48 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-342 Hi Im glad im not alone out there. I have found that porn has made me lose my ability to have a great relationship with real women. Now I am with a really cool girl and I have a hard time making love to her but still feel addicted to the computer. Porn is horrible but I am going to fight to give it up. Hi Im glad im not alone out there. I have found that porn has made me lose my ability to have a great relationship with real women. Now I am with a really cool girl and I have a hard time making love to her but still feel addicted to the computer. Porn is horrible but I am going to fight to give it up.

]]> By: peersap http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-88 peersap Fri, 30 Nov 2007 17:02:20 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-88 We're glad that we are not alone in this fight. Our target audience are children between the ages of 11 and 18, because they have so much to lose. We have been receive many requests from parents to speak with their children and help them talk to their children about Porn. We gladly help everyone who comes to us, and I am glad to see others taking a similar stand. We’re glad that we are not alone in this fight. Our target audience are children between the ages of 11 and 18, because they have so much to lose. We have been receive many requests from parents to speak with their children and help them talk to their children about Porn. We gladly help everyone who comes to us, and I am glad to see others taking a similar stand.

]]> By: DECCO http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-85 DECCO Thu, 29 Nov 2007 17:11:02 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-85 hi folks thanks for posting my note. the last lne in the 2nd paragraph has a typo. it should read "No jealousy here!" The Matt. 19 fragment ought to be deleted. thanks again. p.s., a helpful book is "THE MEANING OF PERSONS" by Paul Tournier. hi folks

thanks for posting my note. the last lne in the 2nd paragraph has a typo. it should read “No jealousy here!” The Matt. 19 fragment ought to be deleted. thanks again.

p.s., a helpful book is “THE MEANING OF PERSONS” by Paul Tournier.

]]> By: DECCO http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-84 DECCO Wed, 28 Nov 2007 19:26:32 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-84 Porn supplies you the image for an ideal Lover. Granted, such is nothing but a pixelated fiction, a romanticism. But, you process sensual data with your brain, not with the sense-apparatus itself. Hence, your mind's eye sees this Lover, suspends disbelief in it, and receives it to itself as being real. Why? Because your loneliness drives you to want it to be real! Such an idealism is a beautiful monster. An unclean spirit, a demon, enters the pixelation, brings it to life and makes you its lover. Notice I said ITS lover, not HER lover. No human being can compare with your idealized demon- Lover who actually possesses no gender at all. 'She's' the fairest of them all- 'til 'her' charms bore you, in time. Then, it's off to Porn-Land to retrieve more images. The spirit-Lover discards the old and assists you in Googling a new incarnation. No remediate, but with God all things are possible (Matt. 19jealousy here! A man caught up in such a state is tied to lies; his life is a lie. His Lovers- his romanticisms -are all lies. Necessarily then, the doors to authentic relationships are locked shut to him, even to the person whose naked body he's been gawking at! If what you've read so far is true, you ought to be terrified. We all should be. The demons who enter these compelling pixelations oppress you, deprive you of the love you're desperate for, and laugh at your final ruin. They know human beings, not pixelated frauds, alone possess love and can freely share it. Take courage! With God all things are possible (Matt. 19:26). In Christ, deliverance is at hand (John 8:36). Porn supplies you the image for an ideal Lover. Granted, such is nothing but a pixelated fiction, a romanticism. But, you process sensual data with your brain, not with the sense-apparatus itself. Hence, your mind’s eye sees this Lover, suspends disbelief in it, and receives it to itself as being real. Why? Because your loneliness drives you to want it to be real!

Such an idealism is a beautiful monster. An unclean spirit, a demon, enters the pixelation, brings it to life and makes you its lover. Notice I said ITS lover, not HER lover. No human being can compare with your idealized demon- Lover who actually possesses no gender at all. ‘She’s’ the fairest of them all- ’til ‘her’ charms bore you, in time. Then, it’s off to Porn-Land to retrieve more images. The spirit-Lover discards the old and assists you in Googling a new incarnation. No remediate, but with God all things are possible (Matt. 19jealousy here!

A man caught up in such a state is tied to lies; his life is a lie. His Lovers- his romanticisms -are all lies. Necessarily then, the doors to authentic relationships are locked shut to him, even to the person whose naked body he’s been gawking at! If what you’ve read so far is true, you ought to be terrified. We all should be.

The demons who enter these compelling pixelations oppress you, deprive you of the love you’re desperate for, and laugh at your final ruin. They know human beings, not pixelated frauds, alone possess love and can freely share it.

Take courage! With God all things are possible (Matt. 19:26). In Christ, deliverance is at hand (John 8:36).

]]> By: JoJO http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-46 JoJO Sun, 11 Nov 2007 00:31:36 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-46 Porn may cause loneliness but I'd argue that in many if not the majority of cases loneliness is the actual cause of men viewing porn. Many men cannot find sexual partners easily and the isolation, frustration and sadness this causes means many men have no alternative for sexual release than porn and masturbation. Even married men who are in sexless or near sexless marriages feel lonely and often turn to porn to escape. Porn may cause loneliness but I’d argue that in many if not the majority of cases loneliness is the actual cause of men viewing porn. Many men cannot find sexual partners easily and the isolation, frustration and sadness this causes means many men have no alternative for sexual release than porn and masturbation.

Even married men who are in sexless or near sexless marriages feel lonely and often turn to porn to escape.

]]> By: peersap http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-32 peersap Sat, 03 Nov 2007 00:37:39 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-32 Just wait till our site is fully functional. It is an exciting time for us!! Thanks for reading. Just wait till our site is fully functional. It is an exciting time for us!! Thanks for reading.

]]> By: Jason Borne http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-31 Jason Borne Sat, 03 Nov 2007 00:28:49 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-31 Yeah, way to go Lance! You did it again. I just wanted to point out to everyone that Lance is truely an energetic persons and he is very sucessful with his life. I can't wait to read the next one. Yeah, way to go Lance! You did it again. I just wanted to point out to everyone that Lance is truely an energetic persons and he is very sucessful with his life. I can’t wait to read the next one.

]]> By: Hello Kitty http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-22 Hello Kitty Sat, 27 Oct 2007 16:12:31 +0000 http://peersap.wordpress.com/2007/10/27/side-effect-of-porn-loneliness/#comment-22 Wow. I never thought of things like that before. I have felt lonely every once and a while which always makes me go back to viewing porn. lol I guess I need to think differently. Wow. I never thought of things like that before. I have felt lonely every once and a while which always makes me go back to viewing porn. lol I guess I need to think differently.

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